How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 01:19
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What I need from you?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Does not procrastinate.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why did the Soviet Jews hate the Soviet Union?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
In what ways does Islam oppress women?
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
What do feminists mean when they say they want to ‘normalize’ menstruation and its discussion?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Making more friends is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What are some things that children used to wait for, but are no longer common in today's society?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What happened to your school bully?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What's the most sordid activity you've ever seen or heard about at a bachelorette party?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Is dating in college necessary? Why and why not?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why do only ugly women like me on Tinder? Is it because I'm an ugly man?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How would you describe modern day Russian society, beyond just politics?
Procrastinates a lot.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?